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Silent Household = Angry Household

2025

A couple came in after a week of silence and called it no big deal. I said bullshit. Silence between two people living together is venom.

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Couples therapy video, 591. I was seeing this couple weekly. They came in on a Tuesday. They had not spoken one word to each other since the previous Tuesday night, when they had an argument after one of our sessions.

I said, what has it been like for you two to be in the same house and not talking? And they both said, eh, you know, no big deal. I said, bullshit.

You show me a silent household, I'll show you an angry household.

When two people live in angry silence, the silence equals venom, yuckiness, anger.

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