Blog
Personal writing from someone who has spent 42 years listening. Some pieces are funny. Some are not. All of them are true.
You've Got to Trust the Universe
Dr. Gore on overcoming the anxiety of parenting by teaching your kids what they need to know and learning to trust.
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A Message For Dads
Dr. Gore on a passage from Bruce Springsteen's autobiography, what his wife said to him one day at noon, and why the mornings are the ones you do not get back.
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Less Fear, More Risk Takers
Dr. Gore on empowering children to tolerate failure so they do not end up living in a very small world.
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What are you teaching your kids?
Dr. Gore on the importance of putting away the screens at dinner and teaching your kids how to have real conversations.
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You Don't Have to Do It Alone
Dr. Gore on the self-esteem it takes to ask for help and realize you don't have to have all the answers.
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I Am Green, But Not This Kind of Green
I'm firmly against recycling — emotional recycling, that is. When we keep re-using what hasn't worked, we pass fear, anger, and silence to the next generation.
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The Stages of Being In a Car
A life-cycle essay tracing parenthood through car seats.
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Big News for the Modern Age
Dr. Gore has entered the social media world. His video about NOT taking three-year-olds to Disneyworld hit 480K views. Follow along at @The.Cynical.Psychologist.
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The Ongoing Struggle
Inside of me there are two dogs. The two dogs fight all the time. Which one wins?
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If You've Got the Issues, I've Got the Tissues
Tissues are sacred. A meditation on what those boxes of paper goods in a therapist's office actually hold.
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The Living Museum
My daughter's third grade class had a Living Museum — Einstein, Lincoln, two dueling Harriet Tubmans. And one very unexpected standout.
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He Learned a Lesson
My ten-year-old son was certain you could buy a teleportation gun on Amazon. We made a bet. Double or nothing.
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Surrender
Sometimes just by letting go, we actually reach the destination.
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Happy Mother's Day
To all you Moms out there: one day does not provide enough pampering for all you do. And to my family — thanks for raising me and helping me not die during my childhood.
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Just Showing Up Is Enough
When suffering shows up, presence beats advice almost every time. You don't need a psychology degree — you need courage.
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Score One for Good Fathering and Spontaneity
My nineteen-year-old was broke, the Alt-J concert was that night, and she texted me three messages in a row. This is the best kind of parenting.
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This Girl Just Runs and Runs
I spent many hours at track meets. Running long distances is about perseverance. This story made me cry — as a Dad, as a former athlete, and as a fan of what humans can do.
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Why Are Women Medicated at Nearly Twice the Rate of Men?
It is no secret I believe that too many people are on too many medicines. A female psychiatrist expresses her own sorrow and fear about the gender gap in psychiatric prescribing.
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Procrastination
A page about procrastination. Coming soon.
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Autobiography in Five Short, Short Chapters
A client told me she met "Him" again. I said: Sounds like you are in Chapter 3. Here's the poem that explains what I meant.
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New Pixar Movie Excites This Psychologist
Pete Docter noticed his daughter went from a rambunctious girl to a quiet preteen. He wanted to know why. So he made Inside Out. I can tell you why it matters.
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Books I Am Not Writing
Every day over 800 Americans publish a book. I am bucking that trend. Here are some books I am NOT working on today.
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Why We Have Lousy Relationships
Why do we end up with our partners? Who we end up with says a lot about who we are.
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This Was Written In 2012, And Things Are Somehow Not Improving
Every kid pulled out a screen. Heads down. Thumbs moving. They looked content — but they weren't talking. The less they interact now, the harder it will be later.
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