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What Nobody Will Tell You About Early Recovery and Going to Meetings. And Why You Should Stay Clean and Sober Anyway

September 11, 2026

  • Your body is going to go through changes
  • You might gain weight
  • You might have trouble sleeping
  • You might be really clumsy
  • You might forget things...like all the time
  • Your emotions are going to be all over the place
  • You might need to go on medication - temporarily or for a while.
  • You’re going to crave sugar
  • You will have cravings to use/drink
  • You might feel lost and/or depressed
  • You might have drunk/high dreams
  • Your family and friends might not like it so much that you’re sober/clean
  • You may be bored
  • Meetings may not be enough
  • People might swarm you at your first couple of meetings
  • People are going to ask you why you’re not drinking
  • You’re going to be in situations where people are drinking, and might even pressure you to do so
  • People may annoy you by sharing too long
  • Your doctor(s) may know less about addiction than you do
  • You might feel like the sickest person in the room and want to run
  • You might feel like the healthiest person in the room and want to run
  • You might not understand what the hell some people are talking about when they share
  • If you are a woman, the men may feel creepy
  • You might not know why people are laughing
  • People who are on a pink cloud will annoy you
  • People who are miserable and share for a long time will annoy you
  • It might feel like a cult
  • Sobriety will often suck
  • The god stuff is weird if you find god stuff weird
  • You will romance the “good old days”
  • There will be cliques and you may not be in one