ENABLING
- I protect
- I control
- I carry their feelings
- I don't listen
- I rescue
- I fix
- I feel... tired, anxious, fearful, over-responsible
- I can't trust
CARING
- I share
- I confront
- I am sensitive
- I listen
- I don't rescue
- I let consequences naturally occur
- I feel... relaxed, free, aware, highly-esteemed
- I can trust
